Beyond Behavior: Understanding Attention-Seeking in Young Children by Shelby Secoura, RECE

Ever wonder why some children seem to demand attention in ways that leave you feeling unsure or frustrated? In this workshop, we’ll uncover the hidden stories behind four distinct types of attention-seeking behaviors. You’ll learn to look beyond the surface and understand the why behind each child’s actions, helping you unlock new pathways to connection and care. As educators, it can be challenging when we’re unable to meet the needs of every child at once. In this session, led by Early Childhood Leader and Multi-Site Specialist Shelby Secoura, RECE, you’ll gain the confidence to recognize the subtle differences in attention-seeking behaviours and respond in ways that nurture each child individually. Together, we’ll explore practical strategies to help you enter your classroom prepared to handle any situation with empathy and insight. Through real-world examples and reflective exercises, this workshop will transform how you view attention-seeking moments—not as disruptions, but as opportunities to better understand and support the children in your care. Join this journey of discovery, where we’ll question daily techniques and learn how to be more present, responsive, and prepared for each unique child who crosses our path.

Learning Objectives

By the end of this workshop, participants will be able to:
• Identify and differentiate among four common types of attention-seeking behaviors in children.
• Analyze the underlying emotional needs and triggers that drive these behaviors.
• Reflect on their own responses to challenging behaviors and explore mindset shifts to enhance empathy and connection.
• Apply targeted, relationship-based strategies to support children during moments of heightened attention-seeking.
• Develop a personalized action plan to foster more intentional, compassionate, and effective responses in their daily practice.